Trying to get closer to your partner may actually be driving her away ,
“ Build intimacy with your partner” is a bad advice . It’s not that the man hasn’t “built intimacy” . Rather , he hasn’t built himself into someone she feels safe being intimate with ,
Chasing her validation is a fool’s errand . But a good woman will almost always come around if you show up like a man you admire and prove yourself solid and dependable ,
Trying to force compatibility with her just because you like her,
Chasing a “game” is horrible . Doing so makes you appear morally weak and you’re back where you started ,
Relationship work is self-development in disguise . You don’t need to focus on the relationship , you need to focus on becoming a first-rate man and an inspiring presence ,
Just Chill.!!
