
Learn the rules first.
Don’t jump in without knowing how things work. Ask yourself: Are we competing, working together, or is this an ongoing challenge? Knowing this helps you play smarter.
Watch actions, not just words.
People often show their real plans through what they do, not what they say. Pay close attention.
Let others save face.
In talks or fights, don’t trap anyone. Give them a way out, so things don’t get messy. True power is about controlling results, not forcing people down.
Aim to change the game, not just win it.
Winning is great, but changing how the game works is even better.
Remember, games often repeat.
Every time you meet someone, your reputation grows or shrinks. Think long-term.
Keep your info close.
Don’t give away your secrets. When you stay quiet, others end up showing theirs.
Be unpredictable.
Whether in conflict or love, surprising others keeps you safe and strong.
Don’t get too predictable.
People value mystery and respect those who strike with good timing. Be patient and wait for the right moment.
Not every win is worth it.
Sometimes winning now can hurt your relationships or future chances. Think ahead.
Use bluffing carefully.
It can help, but be ready for the risks if you get found out.
Know your best backup plan.
If you can walk away easily, you have more power. Desperation shows, so avoid it.
Learn when to quit.
Some games aren’t worth playing. Be smart and save your energy for fights you can win.